Most ceremonies follow a recognizable shape, even when the words are entirely personal.
- Welcome and gathering words
- A few words about the couple — often where your story lives
- Readings, prayers or cultural elements, if you want them
- Declaration of intent — the classic 'I do'
- Vows
- Ring exchange
- Any unity element, such as a candle, sand or handfasting
- Pronouncement and the kiss
- Presentation of the couple
The declaration of intent and the pronouncement are the pieces that carry the legal weight. Everything else is yours to shape.
So… which one is your wedding?
A $150 paperwork wedding, or a ceremony built for the two of you.