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What Does an Officiant Say During a Wedding Ceremony?

The typical structure of a wedding ceremony script, section by section.

Most ceremonies follow a recognizable shape, even when the words are entirely personal.

  • Welcome and gathering words
  • A few words about the couple — often where your story lives
  • Readings, prayers or cultural elements, if you want them
  • Declaration of intent — the classic 'I do'
  • Vows
  • Ring exchange
  • Any unity element, such as a candle, sand or handfasting
  • Pronouncement and the kiss
  • Presentation of the couple

The declaration of intent and the pronouncement are the pieces that carry the legal weight. Everything else is yours to shape.

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